Journey of life is not so easy - it's full of sorrows - sadness - pains - it's full of disappointment - but the strange thing is that all these we are getting from our near and dear ones, because other than near and dear whatever they do who care's - Research and studies says that nobody has time to think - but when it comes to our Relatives, our near one's, our dear one's of course it matters, in fact it matters a lot. This is the biggest tragedy of life which nobody normally doesn't have capability to cope up with it. Yet, at some point of time, when it come the question of our parents we have to restrict ourselves, we have to restrict our thoughts, we have to restrict ourselves to much extent. Yet it is not just the question of our parents, rather there are many other aspects in which we can throw light on this topic, let us see some more interesting aspects of this topic.
In human life, we come across many relations which matters a lot in our life's other than our parents and there are only 2 aspects which are Friends and Love one's. These relations are like rubber bands the more we pull, more it will spread, but ultimately it will come back to its original position but if we try to pull it more it will just break out - this is the simplest example which I thought i can put up over here. And this are the relations which are more meaningful in one's life after our Parents. Of course there are no words which our Parents and family members keep place in our life, words are less for that, but lets talk the other way round other than parents and family members, how does it matters.
The thing which I would like to discuss some of you finding it bore to read such a big big articles - but what can I do I cannot restrict myself topics are such - LIFE - unstoppable to think anything.
Bye the way lets come to our point - how life becomes uneasy - when we dont feel ease to live peacefully whatever may be the reason whatever may be the cause - there are certain moments which comes in everybody's life when we just can't take it easy, but yet we have to and its not possible for everyone coz everyone doesn't have got that power to cope up with such situation which is unbearable - how to react we just don't know - coz the things which hurts us are the things gifted by our near ones and dear ones only - then what we can do -
1) In such situation we will fight with our near ones and let the relationship go to hell, is it like that????
2) what else we can do, if they are not ready to understand----
NO - its not like that in such situation we never fight with our near one's instead we always try to console ourselves and we just try to fight with the situation to avoid such situation, so that such situation should pass away as early as possible - we never avoid our dear one's, we never fight with our dear one's, rather if we are not fighting, we should do only one thing or rather we are doing one thing, just we complain to ourselves - there is some problem in us only, that's why such situation occurs - if we would have been keen enough to get through the situation, this situation would have been never arisen.
This feeling what we get when we console ourselves is being regarded as WHEN LIFE IS UNEASY JUST TAKE IT EASY - this thing we tell to ourselves and we live life happily, yet whatever is done - they are the part of ourselves only, so we have to bear such things, but such things are applicable to FAMILY MEMBERS and not always to FRIENDS and LOVE'D ones - sometimes it is but not always, but this situation is fit, always and forever for Family members only and rarely for other relations, depends on person to person, how persons treats and behaves and takes relationship with their friends and love'd ones it solely depends on that -
Yeah that's it - can't help to make it shorter - just try to read it - can pass comment also if necessary - else just avoid it - that will be better - it matters for those in whose live's relationships matters and not for everyone
Regards.
Sha-Azam Siddiqui
In human life, we come across many relations which matters a lot in our life's other than our parents and there are only 2 aspects which are Friends and Love one's. These relations are like rubber bands the more we pull, more it will spread, but ultimately it will come back to its original position but if we try to pull it more it will just break out - this is the simplest example which I thought i can put up over here. And this are the relations which are more meaningful in one's life after our Parents. Of course there are no words which our Parents and family members keep place in our life, words are less for that, but lets talk the other way round other than parents and family members, how does it matters.
The thing which I would like to discuss some of you finding it bore to read such a big big articles - but what can I do I cannot restrict myself topics are such - LIFE - unstoppable to think anything.
Bye the way lets come to our point - how life becomes uneasy - when we dont feel ease to live peacefully whatever may be the reason whatever may be the cause - there are certain moments which comes in everybody's life when we just can't take it easy, but yet we have to and its not possible for everyone coz everyone doesn't have got that power to cope up with such situation which is unbearable - how to react we just don't know - coz the things which hurts us are the things gifted by our near ones and dear ones only - then what we can do -
1) In such situation we will fight with our near ones and let the relationship go to hell, is it like that????
2) what else we can do, if they are not ready to understand----
NO - its not like that in such situation we never fight with our near one's instead we always try to console ourselves and we just try to fight with the situation to avoid such situation, so that such situation should pass away as early as possible - we never avoid our dear one's, we never fight with our dear one's, rather if we are not fighting, we should do only one thing or rather we are doing one thing, just we complain to ourselves - there is some problem in us only, that's why such situation occurs - if we would have been keen enough to get through the situation, this situation would have been never arisen.
This feeling what we get when we console ourselves is being regarded as WHEN LIFE IS UNEASY JUST TAKE IT EASY - this thing we tell to ourselves and we live life happily, yet whatever is done - they are the part of ourselves only, so we have to bear such things, but such things are applicable to FAMILY MEMBERS and not always to FRIENDS and LOVE'D ones - sometimes it is but not always, but this situation is fit, always and forever for Family members only and rarely for other relations, depends on person to person, how persons treats and behaves and takes relationship with their friends and love'd ones it solely depends on that -
Yeah that's it - can't help to make it shorter - just try to read it - can pass comment also if necessary - else just avoid it - that will be better - it matters for those in whose live's relationships matters and not for everyone
Regards.
Sha-Azam Siddiqui
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